#B_FOCUS_ED_ and keeping your heart in your chest, where it really belongs, might prevent you that unfortunately someone deliberately or unconsciously, in the worst case, hovers over you without any consideration.
Be critical and learn from mistakes, being compassionate with ourselves and with others to update what it may not be working.
Each time we see, meet or even think about someone or something we are creating a #COMMON_ZONE together where each one put their love, likes, values, wishes or their unconsciouss feelings. Keeping clean this spaces is sometimes a hard job. Not letting toxicity in all your common realities help us to live beautiful and amazing experiences.
Makings ourselves responsable of our actions and decisions, leads us to make ourselves responsable of creating #HEALTHY_RELATION_SHIP_S too.
We may find 4 different states or types of relations. Each of them represents a different level of vibration, mind predisposition and an intimacy degree:
Everyone has a path to walk. Keep in mind that not everybody will walk in the same direction. Learn when to let go. It doesn’t mean that we are closing the door. Never deny to anyone a smile or good words. But we need to set some minimun rules to get into more intimate relations. Sometimes a little bit of personal work is need it from the other partner to be more aware about their virtues and weakness. Deep inside, major part of the time people do not want to harm anyone.
This may be a way to explain what happens at this moments where we begin to now ourselves and be open to hear the emotions, even sometimes they are hard to deal with. It might be the most difficult moment in this journey. We begin to know our weak points, what things are harmful and what things we keep doing even you are perfectly aware that are toxic or painful. This will require a high level of #PATIENCE, dedication and overall a lot of #WILL_POWER.
#THE_LAW_OF_SEVEN is a helpful way to visualize the possible path of next events. This law explains many things, but in this case, how each of our challenges follow a well known pattern, with two #SHOCKING_POINTS that we all have to deal and face to. We could imagine now, how diffcult might be to anyone to contribute in a healthy way to a comon reality while they are struggling with theirselves. A lot of #COMPASSION and #WELL_GROUND_ED feet will be need it if we want to have a #BLOOMING_COMMON_REALITY.
Once we open our soul. The universe sounds different. Love is the real language. Lookong inside the eyes and soul and carefully choosing those who we want around, those who we will let take a look and coming inside. You could easy recognized the glimpse in the face of those who have find their true self and decided to always share their essence with others.
Wich are they key answers that we need to letting others coming into the last circle/space/room of our reality. We may look it as it was our own home. Anyone could walk around our garden, it is always open or may could easily jump the little fence. But not everybody could come into the house or stay or have dinner or whatever. And of course not everyones will be allowed to see our most intimate place, our room. We should carefully chosen those who will be allowed to pass thru that door, where our emotions, feelings and innocence bloom. Once we understand the vital moment of both parts, it is important to define the limits and #K_NOW what we want to share in the #COMMON_ZONE, clean up those things that may not be pure to the relation. Time to updating all toxic patterns.
Once we have define the level of #INTIMACY we want to share, now we are able to bloom, grow and get fruits according to the profundity of the connection. #B_OPEN_ and do not hesitate to #UPDATE the relation when is needed.